#DTTF: Disgrace to the family (Part 4)

“My family said I was crazy to pursue my dreams, but I proved them wrong.” – Lady Gaga

“They told me I was throwing my life away, but I knew I had to follow my passion.” – Rihanna

3. “My family didn’t understand my vision, but I never gave up on myself.” – Justin Bieber

4. “They said I would never make it, but I turned their doubt into motivation.” – Selena Gomez

5. “When my family rejected my dreams, I used it as fuel to prove them wrong.” – Zac Efron

6. “I was told I was wasting my time, but I believed in myself and proved them all wrong.” – Emma Stone

7. “My family didn’t support my dreams, but I didn’t let that stop me from pursuing what I love.” – Ariana Grande

8. “They said I was making a mistake, but I knew I had to follow my heart.” – Zendaya

9. “Despite the lack of support, I knew I had to pursue my passion and prove them all wrong.” – Taylor Swift

10. “They didn’t understand my dreams, but I never let their rejection define me.” – Shawn Mendes

11. “I was told it was a foolish dream, but I never stopped believing in myself.” – Millie Bobby Brown

12. “They laughed at my ambitions, but their doubt only made me work harder.” – Harry Styles

13. “When my family turned their backs on me, I used it as motivation to succeed.” – Camila Cabello

14. “I faced rejection from my family, but I refused to give up on my dreams.” – Noah Centineo

15. “They didn’t see my potential, but I proved them all wrong through hard work and dedication.” – Hailee Steinfeld

16. “My family didn’t believe in me, but I believed in myself, and that’s what mattered.” – Jaden Smith

17. “They said I was wasting my time, but I couldn’t ignore the fire inside me.” – Billie Eilish

18. “Despite their doubts, I knew I had to follow my passion and prove them wrong.” – Lili Reinhart

19. “When my family rejected my dreams, I found the strength within me to keep going.” – Tom Holland

20. “I faced criticism and disbelief, but I didn’t let that stop me from chasing my dreams.” – Maisie Williams

“My family said I was throwing away my future, but I knew I had to follow my passion.” – Zendaya

“They told me I was making a huge mistake, but I believed in myself and kept going.” – Lady Gaga

“My family couldn’t understand why I wanted to be an actor, but I proved them wrong.” – Emma Stone

“They said I would never make it, but I used their doubt as fuel to succeed.” – Shawn Mendes

“My family thought I was crazy, but I had to follow my heart and chase my dreams.” – Ariana Grande
6. “They didn’t believe in me, but I believed in myself and proved them all wrong.” – Selena Gomez
7. “My family didn’t understand why I wanted to be a musician, but now they’re my biggest fans.” – Billie Eilish
8. “They thought I was wasting my time, but I knew I had to pursue my passion.” – TimothĂ©e Chalamet
9. “My family couldn’t see my vision, but I worked hard and showed them what I was capable of.” – Hailee Steinfeld
10. “They said I was dreaming too big, but I refused to settle for less.” – Jaden Smith
11. “My family thought I was throwing away my education, but I knew I had to pursue my dreams in art.” – Cara Delevingne
12. “They didn’t understand why I wanted to be a comedian, but now they’re laughing with me.” – Pete Davidson
13. “My family didn’t support my decision to become a filmmaker, but I proved that I could make it.” – Ava DuVernay
14. “They thought my passion for writing was just a hobby, but I turned it into a successful career.” – Rupi Kaur
15. “My family didn’t believe in my talent, but I worked hard and proved them wrong.” – Tom Holland
16. “They said I was too young to pursue my dreams, but age is just a number.” – Millie Bobby Brown
17. “My family thought I was crazy for wanting to be a professional dancer, but I showed them my dedication.” – Maddie Ziegler
18. “They didn’t think I could make it as a fashion designer, but now they wear my clothes.” – Alexander Wang
19. “My family didn’t understand why I wanted to be a chef, but now they can’t get enough of my cooking.” – Flynn McGarry
20. “They doubted my ability to succeed in sports, but I used their disbelief as motivation.” – Simone Biles

#DTTF: Disgrace to the family (Part 3)

“My family said I was chasing an impossible dream, but I proved them wrong.” – Jennifer Lopez

“They laughed at me when I told them my dreams, but their doubt fueled my determination.” – Lady Gaga

“My family thought I was wasting my time, but I had to follow my heart and prove them wrong.” – Oprah Winfrey

“They told me I would never make it, but I refused to let their negativity define my path.” – Will Smith

“My family didn’t understand my passion, but I never let their doubts extinguish my fire.” – Rihanna

“They said I was foolish to pursue my dreams, but I showed them what true dedication can achieve.” – Dwayne Johnson

“My family didn’t support my aspirations, but I knew deep down I had something special to offer.” – Eminem

“They thought my dreams were unrealistic, but I knew that dreams are only limited by our own beliefs.” – Ariana Grande

“My family told me to give up, but I couldn’t abandon the one thing that made me truly happy.” – Johnny Depp

“They said my dreams were too big, but I never stopped believing in myself.” – Serena Williams

“My family thought I was throwing my life away, but I proved them all wrong with my success.” – Leonardo DiCaprio

“They didn’t understand my passion, but I kept pushing forward because I knew it was my calling.” – BeyoncĂ©

“My family said I was living in a fantasy world, but I turned that fantasy into reality.” – Walt Disney

“They doubted my abilities, but I used their skepticism as fuel to prove them all wrong.” – Cristiano Ronaldo

“My family didn’t think I had what it takes, but I never let their lack of faith hold me back.” – Taylor Swift

“They said my dreams were unrealistic, but I refused to settle for mediocrity.” – Katy Perry

“My family didn’t understand why I wanted to pursue my dreams, but I knew I had to follow my own path.” – Steve Jobs

“They thought I was throwing my life away, but I turned my passion into a successful career.” – Robert Downey Jr.

“My family couldn’t see the potential in my dreams, but I proved them all wrong with my achievements.” – Serena Williams

“They said I was wasting my time, but I turned my dreams into a reality that exceeded all expectations.” – Elon Musk

#DTTF: Disgrace to the family (Part 2)

Mahatma Gandhi – Advocated for nonviolent resistance and independence despite his family’s traditional expectations.

Amelia Earhart – Became a pioneering aviator despite societal expectations for women at the time.

Rosa Parks – Refused to give up her seat on a segregated bus, challenging racial inequality.

Nelson Mandela – Fought against apartheid in South Africa despite his family’s conservative background.

Marie Curie – Overcame gender barriers to become a renowned scientist and the first woman to win a Nobel Prize.

Martin Luther King Jr. – Led the Civil Rights Movement in the United States, advocating for racial equality.

Frida Kahlo – Defied societal norms by becoming a celebrated artist, expressing her unique perspective and experiences.

Elon Musk – Pursued groundbreaking ventures in space exploration and electric vehicles against traditional career paths.

Malala Yousafzai – Defied the Taliban’s opposition to girls’ education and became a global advocate for education rights.

Steve Jobs – Co-founded Apple and revolutionized the technology industry despite familial pressures to pursue a more conventional path.

Coco Chanel – Broke conventions in fashion design, creating timeless styles and challenging societal expectations for women.

Oprah Winfrey – Overcame a difficult upbringing and defied expectations to become a successful media mogul and philanthropist.

Albert Einstein – Revolutionized physics with his theories, despite his family’s expectations for a more traditional career.

Serena Williams – Excelled in professional tennis, becoming one of the greatest athletes in history despite challenges and critics.

Alexander Hamilton – Rose to prominence as a Founding Father of the United States, overcoming his impoverished upbringing.

Anne Frank – Kept a diary documenting her experiences in hiding during the Holocaust, leaving a lasting legacy despite her tragic fate.

Eleanor Roosevelt – Transformed the role of First Lady, advocating for human rights, women’s rights, and social justice.

Tim Berners-Lee – Invented the World Wide Web, defying expectations and reshaping global communication and information exchange.

Harriet Tubman – Escaped slavery and dedicated her life to the abolitionist movement, leading many others to freedom through the Underground Railroad.

#DTTF: Disgrace to the family (Part 1)

“In African families there are only 4 career choices. Doctor, Lawyer, Engineer…and Disgrace to the family.” – Gina Yashere

Here’s Gina performing the joke, which is funny because, sadly, it’s true.

Disgrace to the family.

#DTTF

Quitting Medicine involves trading the collection of abbreviations that denote your years of slavery…for just one.

F1, F2, CT1, CT2, ST1, ST2, ST3, SpR, Staff Grade, SHO, MD, DO, MBBS, MD/PhD, MPH, MS, PA, NP, CRNA, DPM

You trade all of these sacred cows for a magic bean called #DTTF

Disgrace to the family.

Wear it with pride.

Transformation stories #2: Fresh start

Here are some transformation stories of Medics* who made the leap into an alternative career that did NOT directly leverage skills they acquired through medical training. They had a fresh start into something different.

  1. Name: Samuel Lawson
    Current Medical Grade and Speciality: GP (General Practitioner)
    Pet Peeve from Medical School: Endless paperwork and bureaucracy.
    Backstory/Odd Hobby: Samuel is an avid birdwatcher and has traveled to over 20 countries to spot rare species.
    Alternative Non-Medical Career: Samuel becomes a professional travel photographer, capturing breathtaking landscapes and wildlife in remote locations.
  2. Name: Emily Stone
    Current Medical Grade and Speciality: Surgeon
    Pet Peeve from Medical School: Long shifts and sleep deprivation.
    Backstory/Odd Hobby: Emily has a secret talent for playing the accordion and often performs at local music festivals.
    Alternative Non-Medical Career: Emily pursues a career as a successful fashion designer, creating unique and avant-garde clothing designs.
  3. Name: Daniel Parker
    Current Medical Grade and Speciality: Psychiatrist
    Pet Peeve from Medical School: Patients who don’t comply with treatment plans.
    Backstory/Odd Hobby: Daniel is a skilled salsa dancer and frequently participates in dance competitions.
    Alternative Non-Medical Career: Daniel becomes a renowned chef, opening his own restaurant and specializing in fusion cuisine.
  4. Name: Olivia Clarke
    Current Medical Grade and Speciality: Pediatrician
    Pet Peeve from Medical School: Overprotective parents who don’t trust medical advice.
    Backstory/Odd Hobby: Olivia is an avid collector of antique typewriters and has a small museum in her basement.
    Alternative Non-Medical Career: Olivia establishes herself as a best-selling crime novelist, captivating readers with her thrilling mystery novels.
  5. Name: Alexander Hughes
    Current Medical Grade and Speciality: Cardiologist
    Pet Peeve from Medical School: The pressure to keep up with the latest research and medical advancements.
    Backstory/Odd Hobby: Alexander is a part-time beekeeper and sells his own artisanal honey at local markets.
    Alternative Non-Medical Career: Alexander finds success as an independent graphic designer, creating visually stunning logos and brand identities.
  6. Name: Victoria Knight
    Current Medical Grade and Speciality: Anesthesiologist
    Pet Peeve from Medical School: Dealing with difficult patients during their post-anesthesia recovery.
    Backstory/Odd Hobby: Victoria is a skilled magician and often performs tricks at children’s parties.
    Alternative Non-Medical Career: Victoria becomes a professional musician, specializing in playing the violin and performing in prestigious orchestras.
  7. Name: Benjamin Foster
    Current Medical Grade and Speciality: Radiologist
    Pet Peeve from Medical School: The monotonous task of reviewing countless X-rays and scans.
    Backstory/Odd Hobby: Benjamin is a passionate surfer and has even competed in regional surfing championships.
    Alternative Non-Medical Career: Benjamin becomes a renowned landscape architect, designing stunning parks and gardens in urban areas.
  8. Name: Amelia Reynolds
    Current Medical Grade and Speciality: Dermatologist
    Pet Peeve from Medical School: Patients seeking quick fixes rather than following long-term skincare routines.
    Backstory/Odd Hobby: Amelia is an amateur astronomer and spends her evenings stargazing with her telescope.
    Alternative Non-Medical Career: Amelia becomes a successful jewelry designer, crafting unique and intricate pieces inspired by celestial objects.
  9. Name: Henry Mitchell
    Current Medical Grade and Speciality: Orthopedic Surgeon
    Pet Peeve from Medical School: Patients who ignore post-surgery rehabilitation exercises.
    Backstory/Odd Hobby: Henry is a competitive chess player and has won multiple local tournaments.
    Alternative Non-Medical Career: Henry becomes a highly sought-after architect, designing innovative and sustainable buildings

*Names have been changed, but anyone of them could be the person you see in the mirror each morning. What are you waiting for?

Transformation stories #1: Leveraging existing skills

Here are some transformation stories of Medics* who made the leap into an alternative career that leveraged skills they acquired through medical training.

  1. Name: Dr. Oliver Westfield
    Medical Grade: GP (General Practitioner)
    Speciality: Family Medicine
    Pet Peeve: Endless paperwork and administrative tasks.
    Backstory/Hobby: Dr. Westfield is a skilled pianist who used to perform in jazz clubs during medical school.
    Alternative Career: Health and Wellness Consultant for a luxury spa, providing medical advice and holistic treatments.
  2. Name: Dr. Amelia Bennett
    Medical Grade: Consultant
    Speciality: Cardiology
    Pet Peeve: Patients who don’t follow their prescribed treatment plans.
    Backstory/Hobby: Dr. Bennett is an avid hiker and mountaineer, having climbed several major peaks around the world.
    Alternative Career: Medical Technical Advisor for an outdoor equipment company, providing expertise on heart health and safety during strenuous activities.
  3. Name: Dr. Samuel Porter
    Medical Grade: Registrar
    Speciality: Orthopedics
    Pet Peeve: Patients who ignore post-operative instructions and jeopardize their recovery.
    Backstory/Hobby: Dr. Porter is a skilled carpenter and enjoys building intricate wooden models in his spare time.
    Alternative Career: Medical Consultant for a prosthetics company, assisting in the development and improvement of orthopedic devices.
  4. Name: Dr. Emily Hartley
    Medical Grade: Foundation Doctor
    Speciality: Pediatrics
    Pet Peeve: Parents who refuse vaccinations without considering the scientific evidence.
    Backstory/Hobby: Dr. Hartley is a talented painter and has exhibited her artwork in local galleries.
    Alternative Career: Medical Illustrator, creating educational illustrations and graphics for medical textbooks and journals.
  5. Name: Dr. Benjamin Reynolds
    Medical Grade: Consultant
    Speciality: Neurology
    Pet Peeve: Medical jargon that confuses patients and makes it harder for them to understand their conditions.
    Backstory/Hobby: Dr. Reynolds is a passionate beekeeper, maintaining several beehives and producing his own honey.
    Alternative Career: Medical Writer, translating complex medical concepts into accessible language for the general public.
  6. Name: Dr. Olivia Harper
    Medical Grade: Registrar
    Speciality: Psychiatry
    Pet Peeve: Stigma surrounding mental health issues and the lack of resources for patients.
    Backstory/Hobby: Dr. Harper is an amateur magician and loves performing tricks at social gatherings.
    Alternative Career: Medical Consultant for a film production company, advising on accurate portrayals of mental health issues in movies and TV shows.
  7. Name: Dr. Daniel Lawson
    Medical Grade: GP (General Practitioner)
    Speciality: Dermatology
    Pet Peeve: Patients who rely heavily on online self-diagnosis and misinformation.
    Backstory/Hobby: Dr. Lawson is a passionate gardener and has won awards for his meticulously manicured rose garden.
    Alternative Career: Medical Consultant for a skincare company, developing and testing new dermatological products.
  8. Name: Dr. Charlotte Mitchell
    Medical Grade: Foundation Doctor
    Speciality: Emergency Medicine
    Pet Peeve: Patients who misuse emergency services for non-urgent matters.
    Backstory/Hobby: Dr. Mitchell is a competitive ballroom dancer and has participated in national dance championships.
    Alternative Career: Medical Consultant for a disaster management organization, providing expertise in emergency response and triage.

*Names have been changed, but anyone of them could be the person you see in the mirror each morning. What are you waiting for?