10,000 times better?

If you take any activity and intentionally do it 10,000 times in a row…you will be much better at it than when you started.
That’s the simple idea behind this post.
Pick something, do it 10,000 times and you will get better at it.
Now whilst this might seem silly and obvious, it’s the perfect antidote for those who who are allowing the pursuit of perfection to rob them of the pleasure of progress.
They’re paralysed by trying to figure out how to get better, rather than focusing on just showing up to do the work that will make them better, the more they do it.
Ira Glass calls this “closing the gap”:
https://player.vimeo.com/video/24715531
The problem with this idea is one word: time.
It’s one thing to do something for an hour, a weekend, or even a year.
But 10,000 times in a row…seems like a daunting, insurmountable challenge that isn’t even worth starting.
And when you’re feeling frustrated and backed into a corner by unpaid debts, peer pressure, and the weight of your responsibilities…probably the last thing you want to hear is anyone talking about “10,000 steps” to success.
You needed success and breakthrough before yesterday.
If that resonates with you, then the good news is that you’re not alone.
Each person who quietly toiled away for 10 years, ten thousand hours, or ten thousand repetitions …before becoming a resounding “overnight success… did so whilst managing the exact same feelings and frustrations that you’re using as reasons for not starting this 10,000 step journey.
What set them apart is that they kept showing up to do the work despite how they felt.
They kept shipping projects, writing articles, painting a picture a day, recording a new song each week…consistently publishing messes in their pursuit of creating masterpieces.
That’s how they did it, and that’s how you’ll do it too.
Besides, the time is going to pass anyway, whether or not you decide to use it to walk a 10,000 step journey.
But if you do decide to walk this journey, you can do so with the surety that when you’ve completed it…you will be much better than you are right now.
So given that you know the path to walk (do it 10,000 times in a row), and you know that it’s going on take some time…here’s the critical first step you must take:
Pick something worth being better at.
What would you like to be GREAT at over the next 5 to 10 years?
You know the answer to this.
It’s the answer that others have often silenced because of how “impractically fragile” it seemed when you uttered it.
But this answer holds the key to your sense of satisfaction and fulfilment. It’s the reason for you being alive on this planet.
And 70 years from now, you will be so grateful that you dared to invest 5 to 10 years of your time to become better — even GREAT — at something you reaped the benefits of for the next 60+ years of your life.
It’s the equivalent of putting a single $10 bill into a machine…and being given six authentic $10 bills in return.
Again — as Ramit Sethi often says — the time is going to pass anyway. In fact, it’s been passing as you’ve read this article.
All you have to do is commit to intentionally doing 10,000 reps of that thing you’re passionate about…and you will win.
Don’t look at the time you’ve lost already, or even at the where you wish you already were.
Instead, look at where you’re going. Picture yourself being better…being GREAT…at that Thing you’re passionate about.
Fix your eyes on that picture, and then take a step. And another one. And another one. And just keep stepping towards it for no matter what.
Keep that up for 10,000 times in a row…and you’ll win.

If Success is a numbers game…what are your numbers?


“Success is a numbers game. And you’ve got to check your numbers.” — Jim Rohn

That’s the punchline of this article, and the number one thing you need to check going into this new year.

What are your numbers in the 7 key areas of your life?

From Zig Ziglar:

  • Spiritual
  • Family
  • Finance
  • Health and Fitness
  • Work and Career
  • Intellectual
  • Personal and Social

In each area, you need to ask questions where the answer can be a specific number.

For example:

Spirit: how much time do you spend each day in prayer/meditation? How many chapters of Scripture do you read each day?

Family: How much time do you spend uninterrupted with your Spouse each day? How many weekends do you spend simply doing something fun? How many times did you “do it” this week? How many minutes a week/day do you spend in focused time with each of your children?

Finance: How much money have you got saved in the bank? How much do you get paid per hour? What is your net monthly cash flow? What assets do you own and how much money do they each generate for you? How much money do you owe? If you stopped working today, how long would you and your family be able to survive for?

Health and Fitness: How many pushup do you do each morning? How many minutes of aerobic exercise do you do each day? How many pieces of fruit do you eat each day? What is your cholesterol level? What is your potassium level? What is your blood pressure? How much water do you drink each day?

Work and Career: How much time do you spend developing your career? How much time do you spend creating and publishing content around your area of expertise? How many engaged subscribers do you have on your email list? How many testimonials do you have in your Testimonial Book? How much is an hour of your time worth? How many words of fiction do you write each day?

Intellectual: How many books have you read in the last 90 days? How many new things have you learned this week? How much money have you set aside for courses in personal development?

Personal and Social: How many hours of sleep do get each night? How much time do you spend each day/week doing something fun? How many close personal friends do you have whom you could confide in? How many cities around the world have people who would happily put you up for the night? How many people would show up to your funeral if you died tomorrow? How much time are you spending each day working on and reviewing your personal goals?

What gets measured gets done…and also, the numbers don’t lie.

The great news is that if your answers to all of these questions are “zero”, then success in each area is simply a matter of improving the numbers by even a tiny bit.

Get 4 hours of sleep each night? Set a goal of going to bed 10-minutes earlier each month. By the end of a year you’ll be up to 6 hours of sleep.

Get paid $20/hour? Set a goal of increasing this to $30/hour…and you’d have just increased your gross income by $20,000.

Spent “zero minutes” with your kids each week? Set a goal of spending just 20 minutes of focused time with each child per week. That’s 80 minutes a month, or 17+ hours by the end of the year.

And so on.

The beauty of having numbers for each of the 7 areas, is that simply focusing on making the numbers go up will make your whole life rise as well.

Success is a numbers game. Check your numbers.